Common Ground – Being happy for your ex.

It’s easy to forget someone’s magic when they’re no longer in your life. Their faults, mistakes and indiscretions become a narrative louder than "Remember how happy he once made you." Those times they made you feel amazing are now foggy and time-worn; the passionate sex is a dimly lit, bland memory.  Yes, it’s easier to … Continue reading Common Ground – Being happy for your ex.

First Love – & Why Dating is Harder if You’re Gay.

On September 13th, 2010, I got an alert from Facebook telling me that someone had messaged me. At the time I didn’t own a fancy iPhone, so all I received was a frantic beeping sound and a text that told me I had a mail. It was from my ‘ex-boyfriend’. I use that term loosely … Continue reading First Love – & Why Dating is Harder if You’re Gay.

Essay: The Difference Between Being Alone & Being Lonely.

There’s sharp difference between being alone and being lonely. Personally, I love being alone; it's when I'm at my funniest, my sexiest, my most powerful. It's when I can collect my thoughts without anyone needing to hear them or annoyingly ask “what're you thinking about?" I can analyse and dissect my life and the problems … Continue reading Essay: The Difference Between Being Alone & Being Lonely.