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Topher Gen

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    Tag: Boys

    Out My League.

    I never got attention from the traditionally hot guys. I was more a magnet for the socially disenfranchised; the type of guy that had a lingering online…… Read more “Out My League.”

    June 8, 2018June 8, 2018 by Topher Gen

    LGBT 🏳️‍🌈 Respect Us by Educating Yourself.

    The gays are on the rise: we are setting-then-dominating trends, we are slowly sliding our way into the mainstream media and we basically run Twitter. Gay culture…… Read more “LGBT 🏳️‍🌈 Respect Us by Educating Yourself.”

    March 18, 2018March 18, 2018 by Topher Gen

    The Gay Mafia – Please, get over yourself.

    It’s really easy to hate yourself no matter where you are, or who you are with. But it’s especially easy to hate yourself if you’re gay. You…… Read more “The Gay Mafia – Please, get over yourself.”

    December 30, 2017March 7, 2018 by Topher Gen

    ‘Nice Dress, Sissy Boy’ – Why we need to start celebrating gender non-conforming children.

    When I was little I spent a lot of time with my cousins. We’d whittle away our summer afternoons under the watchful eye of grandmother; trailing sand…… Read more “‘Nice Dress, Sissy Boy’ – Why we need to start celebrating gender non-conforming children.”

    December 29, 2017February 25, 2018 by Topher Gen

    The Curse of Sex on the First Date.

    For gay men, dating can be a tricky thing. Generally speaking, the guy you want to stick around never does, and the ones you don’t want to…… Read more “The Curse of Sex on the First Date.”

    November 27, 2017March 12, 2018 by Topher Gen

    Single as F*ck.

    As a child, I never pictured the adult me saving lives or battling it out in courtrooms as a hotshot lawyer; nor did I didn’t imagine myself…… Read more “Single as F*ck.”

    October 26, 2017March 12, 2018 by Topher Gen

    HTRE – Part 1: The Collapse of Mental Stability Never Felt so Funny.

    You know when you’re walking along, enjoying the sun, and you see a little bee buzz by before it delicately lands on a flourishing flower and you…… Read more “HTRE – Part 1: The Collapse of Mental Stability Never Felt so Funny.”

    September 13, 2017September 15, 2017 by Topher Gen

    All The Times I’ve Said ‘I Love You.’

    I have uttered the words ‘I love you’ to precisely three guys, not including male relatives, my dad, and assorted platonic neurotics I get drunk with.  The…… Read more “All The Times I’ve Said ‘I Love You.’”

    August 13, 2017August 22, 2017 by Topher Gen

    Straight Women & Gay Bars

    The first time I waddled into a gay bar I was immediately thrust out of my comfort zone. At the time my eardrum was punctured, so I…… Read more “Straight Women & Gay Bars”

    August 7, 2017March 12, 2018 by Topher Gen

    Why Charli XCX’s ‘Boys’ video is so important – and it’s not just because we get some serious Puthy action.

    Charli brings her hallmark hooks and catchy choruses back in her latest single ‘Boys’ but the music video only makes the whole thing so much sweeter. Directed…… Read more “Why Charli XCX’s ‘Boys’ video is so important – and it’s not just because we get some serious Puthy action.”

    July 27, 2017July 31, 2017 by Topher Gen

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