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Topher Gen

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    Out My League.

    I never got attention from the traditionally hot guys. I was more a magnet for the socially disenfranchised; the type of guy that had a lingering online…… Read more “Out My League.”

    June 8, 2018June 8, 2018 by Topher Gen

    Reading My Teenage Diary

    Growing older has always scared me. Even though it is something that happens to pretty much everyone (except Cher) I prefer to bury my head in the…… Read more “Reading My Teenage Diary”

    May 26, 2018May 26, 2018 by Topher Gen

    Skinny Legend.

    Like most people with body confidence issues, I seek affirmation from internet strangers in a way that is akin to an addiction. And there’s no better place…… Read more “Skinny Legend.”

    May 3, 2018May 3, 2018 by Topher Gen

    Menthol Cigarettes

    I want a boyfriend. Any boyfriend. And this boy, the one with a handsome face attached to a toned body, fits my idea nicely. Initially I only…… Read more “Menthol Cigarettes”

    April 25, 2018 by Topher Gen

    LGBT 🏳️‍🌈 Respect Us by Educating Yourself.

    The gays are on the rise: we are setting-then-dominating trends, we are slowly sliding our way into the mainstream media and we basically run Twitter. Gay culture…… Read more “LGBT 🏳️‍🌈 Respect Us by Educating Yourself.”

    March 18, 2018March 18, 2018 by Topher Gen

    Gay, Unpopular – why don’t they like me?

    As gay men many of us are obsessed with popularity. We seek it out on Instagram, Twitter, Snapchat; at clubs, parties and bars. We edit photos and…… Read more “Gay, Unpopular – why don’t they like me?”

    March 10, 2018March 10, 2018 by Topher Gen

    Common Ground – Being happy for your ex.

    It’s easy to forget someone’s magic when they’re no longer in your life. Their faults, mistakes and indiscretions become a narrative louder than “Remember how happy he…… Read more “Common Ground – Being happy for your ex.”

    March 4, 2018March 7, 2018 by Topher Gen

    Un-Valentine’s Day

    Later this week, millions of people across the country will come together to celebrate the crippling, ball-booting farce known as Valentine’s Day. They’ll express their love by…… Read more “Un-Valentine’s Day”

    February 12, 2018February 12, 2018 by Topher Gen

    Bitch, Please – Are You Brutally Honest, or Straight-Up Nasty?

    Disappointingly for all concerned this is not a crash course on how to be a bitch. For one, if you need to follow a step-by-step guide then…… Read more “Bitch, Please – Are You Brutally Honest, or Straight-Up Nasty?”

    January 10, 2018March 8, 2018 by Topher Gen

    The Gay Mafia – Please, get over yourself.

    It’s really easy to hate yourself no matter where you are, or who you are with. But it’s especially easy to hate yourself if you’re gay. You…… Read more “The Gay Mafia – Please, get over yourself.”

    December 30, 2017March 7, 2018 by Topher Gen

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